- As I mentioned, I found my dress! That was a huge weight off my shoulders since I was pretty much convinced I would never find one that I liked. Maybe I should have actually gone and tried on a few before I came to that "woe is me" decision. It is fabulous and is completely me and is made to go with my fabulous wedding shoes.
- The wedding shoes have determined the color scheme. I didn't want to be one of those brides that chooses colors for her wedding. Somehow in my mind girls who had a color scheme were the same ones that sat around dreamily writing Mrs. Ann-Marie Doe and only ever dreaming of being a wife. Yes, I know how asinine that sounds now but I have a lot of goofy bride/wife/girly stuff hang-ups that I am just fully realizing the extent of. Dealing with those as I go. Anyhoo, the colors are going to be bright yellow and navy. That is for the reception only. Not so much worrying about a color scheme for the invitations, ceremony or website.
- We have found a new venue for the ceremony. The location we were going to have it was the same as the reception location. The venue wanted us to vacate the space for an hour to remove the chairs after the ceremony and we just couldn't see breaking up the flow of the event that way. What would people do for an hour? Besides, the space was never really pretty enough for a ceremony and has always been a bad fit for us in that regard. We chose it for the whole "weekend of fun" thing for our guests and didn't really think through some of the logistics. Since mid-May is a dicey month for anything outside (really, any time is dicey for that in the Northwest) we had to find a new indoor venue. I had a rare moment of genius and remembered a place we saw a small concert at in Portland last year. Lo and behold, they rent out their space and it is awesome. The Oregonian called it a cross between a church and a bordello and that is a perfect description. We are getting hitched at Mississippi Studios!
- I have come to terms with the fact that we are going to have to have chair covers. I dislike chair covers a lot but the chairs are ugly black metal things and those are the only chair options for the venue so.....chair covers it is. I draw the line at bows though. There will be no bows on the back of our chairs.
- I can't talk Kevin into wearing a suit so a tux for all the men in the wedding party it shall be. I can't blame him. I wouldn't want him dictating what I wear for the wedding any more than he wants me telling him what to wear. I really do appreciate the fact that he is into this 100% and LOVES the planning. I am lucky that way. I still need to expose him to less formal weddings so he can drop some preconceptions though.
- The custom art we were planning on fell through so now we have to look for a different artist. It was going to be so cool too. :-(
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
I actually took a fairly long break from wedding planning towards the end of the summer but now am back into it full-force with the finding of the dress. Here are some of the things we have decided on: